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After a couple says “I do” in a perfect word, they live happily ever after. Unfortunately, a perfect world we do not live in. And usually, when the wedding day is done, trouble starts to happen.

Whatever the reason, all of a sudden it turns from a happy relationship to a cold and bitter relationship.

In this article, I am going to draw on my experience as a family counselor San Diego to help a couple decide, when is it time for a couple to seek marriage counseling.

Disagreements, arguments, and fights happen.It is going to happen in a lot of marriages.But there is a time when the couple needs to look at whether or not this is normal or part of everyday life.  Or if is too much and time to seek help.

Because a problem in a marriage, left unchecked, could one day lead to a horrible divorce.

So for couples seeking to keep their marriage, here are some key signs to look for and decide if marriage counseling San Diego is needed.

The first sign is do you guys bicker?Do small issues make you guys argue? Although seemingly insignificant, this could be the start of something that turns bigger.

Second, do you find you don’t have anything nice to say about each other? This is a sign that you guys are holding contempt towards each other and this is not good.

A third thing is do you find that your level of respect for each other is not there?In every relationship, the couple must respect each other.

Fourth sign, do you find a loss of intimacy with each other?  This is not just for sex, although this is part of it.Does is seem like the two of you aren’t as close as you once were?

Fifth, do you find you are happier when you and your spouse are apart?This sign is not good and the beginning of a break up.

Sixth, is there a loss of trust between one another? One of the biggest things in a relationship i trust.When you are living and sharing your intimate moments you have to have trust.

Finally, has there been some infidelity with one of you?Of course it seems obvious and simple.Unfortunately, some of the times when this happens, some couples ignore it rather than try to face it.

Of course there are plenty of other signs.  But these are some big ones when deciding if it is time to seek a marriage counselor in San Diego. 

If you find yourself experiencing these situations, and saving your marriage is what you want.  You need to seek professional help to try and work out these problems.

Often times, a third viewpoint can help immensely and that is where a family counselor can help.

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